Easy Steps For How To Give A Lap Dance!
You probably already know that a lap dancer is a personal, on-on-one version of a strip tease. For a fee, some exotic dance clubs offer this to their customers upon request. A client requests a private dance with his favorite performer. She dances right in front of or even on top of him, but he’s not allowed to touch her or have intercourse with her.
There’s nothing that can light up a guy’s passion and get him super charged for action like a lap dance. If you’re looking to spice up your relationship, offer your guy a treat, or if you want to be the only woman he fantasizes ever about, learning how to lap dance is one sure-fire method of getting his attention. Here’s how you do it!
Step One ~ Music
Knowing how to lap dance means using the right music to set the right mood. Performing an effective lap dance takes special music to get in the right mood. Not just any tune will do, it has to make you feel sexy.
R&B, hip hop, sexy ballads, if it turns you on, it will help you to turn him on! Burn a CD with a sexy mix, and set the stereo so it’s ready when your guy gets home!
Step Two ~ Wardrobe
Be sure to wear some sexy clothing. Many men like black or red lingerie, which is one way to go. But a little creativity in the wardrobe department can really make for an interesting lap dance experience for your man!
School-girl plaid skirts with bobby socks and Mary Janes might not be as revealing, but a man’s imagination is his most powerful sexual organ. Pick an outfit that will set his mind spinning for maximum effect! Other possibilities include a cheer leading outfit, French maid uniform, or sexy black cat suit with leather boots, gloves and accessories for a dominatrix theme…. Just let your imagination run wild!
Step Three ~ Personal Preparation
Spending some time and effort to get in the mood is a big part of how to lap dance. Spend a couple hours bathing, fixing your hair and makeup. You’ll want to look your very sexy best, so that you can portray your sensual side with confidence. Prepare yourself mentally by listening to your favorite music.
The more comfortable you are, the more you will enjoy yourself, the more he will enjoy your performance, so take the time and effort to look and feel your best while dancing for your man.
Step Four ~ Set the Rules
Depending on your mood and theme, establish your character by directing him to sit in the chair you’ve previously set up for him. If you’re going for sexy sweet, gently lead him to it and have him sit down.
If you’re doing the dominatrix theme, treat give him his orders! Make sure he knows the rules you’re set, and make sure he keeps them until you say its OK! It will be worth the wait!
Step Five ~ Tease Him Seductively
If you know how to dance at a night club, you know how to lap dance. You don’t need a sophisticated, choreographed routine. Move with the music, swivel your hips and run your hands over your body. If he’s a breast man, lean over him and let your breast hang as close to his face as possible without letting him touch you. You can touch him if you want, after all…you are in charge. So have some fun bossing him around a little. But know where to draw the line!